We need to talk about how we commemorate our wars in other peoples countries and our own,Honest History, 18 August 2016

“How would we feel if 1,000 Japanese turned up in Darwin wanting to celebrate the bombing of 1942.”

Apart fromthe Frontier Wars against Indigenous Australians, all ofAustralias wars, from New Zealand in 1845 to Afghanistan and Iraq now, have been fought overseas. Battlefields are overseas, graves are overseas, what Abraham Lincoln called the mystic chords of memory stretch across oceans, we travel thousands of kilometres to distant lands to seek closure over the last resting place of a distant relative who died perhaps a century ago.

These facts have implications: if we want to do commemoration properly, really get into it, we have to go to someone elses country. And we dont always do that sensitively; which means the locals, in whose countries our men and women lie and whose countries we fought over, are likely to get upset.

We have seen it in Turkey.Prime Minister Howard feltthat Anzac Cove was as much a part of Australia as the land on which your home is built and had it designated as an overseas place of historic significance to Australia, which is about as close as you can get to annexing a piece of another country that you once unsuccessfully tried to conquer by force. Heaven knows what Turkey thought of that or what Turks in anakkale think of the continuous influx of Australians, peaking around Anzac Day.

The Turks certainly welcome the cash that comes with Australian tourists. Anzac Day there in 2015 was notable among other things for the suggestion that commemoration would be less raucous and alcohol-sodden than usual but the long-term record is mixed, to say the least.

We have seen it in France. Australian commemorative diplomacy serves the domestic Australian community,Romain Fathi has written, as the town [of Villers-Bretonneux] is transformed into a pedestal to assert an Australian national identity. Here, commemoration is politics in action.Richard Reidhas chronicled how commemoration at Villers-Bretonneux has grown over the years from a quiet service run by local people (who have had genuine affection for Australia) to an extravaganza catering to tourists and where the locals are sidelined.

Now we have just seen it in Vietnam. We may never quite know what led to the change from a large ceremony to staged small contingents visiting the Long Tan cross. Perhaps it was the numbers of tourists expected estimates ranged from 1000 to 3000 and some hints in the behaviour of visitors in recent days that a shemozzle was imminent. Perhaps it was some quirk of local versus central Vietnamese politics or a failure of communication between Australian and Vietnamese diplomats or an aversion to Little Pattie.

More seriously, Australian visits to Long Tan have always been sensitive since they began in 1989. The Vietnam War or the American War, as the Vietnamese call it, fought by the United States and its lackeys, still exists as a deep layer of trauma beneath todays prosperous, thrusting Vietnam. There are lots of eggshells in Phuoc Tuy province.

The Twitterverse response to the inital Vietnamese decision ranged from, on one side, outrage (once a Cong, always a Cong, this is what Communist countries do, they have our money) to incredulity at the outrage (its their country, dammit!, how would we feel if 1000 Japanese turned up in Darwin wanting to celebrate the bombing of 1942?). A sensible response came fromRSL National President, Rod White, who registered disappointment, particularly at the late notice, but balanced that with a rueful its their call.

One of the less sensitive reactions was fromveterans spokesperson, Ken Foster, who talked of the mental trauma that might befall Australian veterans deprived of the chance of closure by visiting Long Tan. The mental trauma of the millions of Vietnamese directly affected during the war and since might also be imagined. (Emma Reynolds piece for News Limitedis relevant, as isour collection of resources on Agent Orange.)

The initialkick in the guts remark by Veterans Affairs Minister Tehanwas perhaps understandable, though less judicious than most of his statements since he took the job earlier this year. He was obviously upset, as was the prime minister, though the latter did the sensible thing and got on the phone to his counterpart, Nguyn Xun Phc, to sort things out.An article from former Australian Ambassador to Vietnam, Richard Broinowski, touches on the politics of the issue.

Meanwhile, at todays ceremony at the Australian Vietnam Forces National Memorial in Canberra, some of the speeches touched on the issue ofhow returning Australian soldiers were treated. There was, of course, indifference as well as ill-treatment. Richard Broinowski hints at one cause of that indifference when he recalls that the [Australian Vietnam] force was token, more a premium on an insurance policy for American assistance under the ANZUS Treaty than a genuine attempt to stop Communist expansion.

Insurance premiums, once paid, tend to be forgotten, particularly if the number of people directly paying them is only a tiny proportion of a population which mostly goes about its normal business. We need to beware of indifference becoming the default position associated with our military adventures; wars to which most of us are likely to be indifferent are not worth the fight.

On the other hand, we could take more notice of the wars we have fought at home. There were very likelymore Australians men, women and children killed in the Frontier Warsthan died in either of our big wars or served in Vietnam. The sites of these wars are a lot easier to get to than Long Tan though there is still a need for sensitivity when visiting them; they are on other peoples country still.

David Stephens is the Editor of Honest History. This article was first published in Honest History on 18 August 2016.